Lessons Learned

Every mistake I’ve made has taught me a lesson. Some I repeated many times and some helped me grow. I thought that I would never heal from things that broke me, but I did, and after that, I learned from them.

I’ve learned things the hard way. Not because I wanted to, but because of the choices I made. Sometimes I had no other choice, sometimes it was all I knew how to do.

With every choice, good or bad, came a consequence. Some consequences still affect my life today. Even when I’m trying to do the right thing, they come up biting me in the butt.

I’m not complaining though. I know that everyone makes mistakes, some bigger than others, but we’re all human and it happens.

The lessons learned are what matter now.

I’ve learned to have patience when things don’t go the way I planned.

I’ve learned to stay quiet if I have nothing good to say.

I’ve learned to keep to myself because not everyone has the same heart as me.

I’ve learned to move on when something or someone is not for me.

I’ve learned to breathe before I suffocate with anger.

I’ve learned to choose my battles wisely.

I’ve learned that people who gossip to me will probably gossip about me.

I’ve learned to be understanding and compassionate toward others.

I’ve learned that you miss someone because you love them.

I’ve learned to be careful when it comes to trusting people with my heart.

I’ve learned that people come and go.

I’ve learned to love myself because nobody will ever care for me like me.

I’ve learned to be kind and help others.

I’ve learned that having money doesn’t equal to happiness.

I’ve learned to be humble because we are all the same, in the same world, and children of God.

I’ve learned to trust God’s timing because it is perfect.

I’ve learned to forgive even when people aren’t sorry.

I’ve learned to be present, not in the past and not in the future.

I’ve learned to stay still and appreciate silence.

I’ve learned to slow down when things get too stressful.

I’ve learned to love others as Heavenly Father loves me.

I’ve learned to let go of things that hurt me.

I’ve learned to have faith and leave thing’s in God’s hands.

I’ve learned that I can’t control everything and it’s okay.

I’ve learned that I can’t fix people and no one can fix me.

I’ve learned to listen and only give my opinion when somebody asks for it.

I’ve learned that we can all have different opinions and that’s okay.

I’ve learned to stop and think before I act.

I’ve learned to be grateful for the little things I didn’t notice before.

I’ve learned how to talk to God and pray with all my heart.

I’ve learned that grief is just love that has no where to go.

I’ve learned to appreciate what I have.

I’ve learned that I deserve better and never to settle.

I’ve learned to be strong when life got tough.

I’ve learned to work hard for what I want and never quit.

I’ve learned that change is inevitable and necessary.

I’ve learned to wait and trust the process.

I’ve learned to listen to my heart but also my mind before making big decision.

I’ve learned that you can heal when you start to let go.

I’ve also learned that I don’t know everything..

But most important of all,

I’ve learned that God has never left my side.

I’ve learned that I am nothing without Heavenly Father and with Him I have everything I need.

Love Pao.

All I know is that I know nothing.